Ireland: Conversation
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Welcome topics of conversation
Irish generally prefer direct eye contact. People who avoid eye contact may not be perceived as trustworthy.
The Irish are enthusiastic conversationalists and debaters. A wide range of topics may be open to discussion, including religion and politics. The best policy, however, is to wait for your Irish companions to bring up these two subjects; be prepared to hear very strong and often confrontational opinions and be aware that both subjects are highly contentious in Ireland due to the country's history of invasion [see Introduction to Ireland].
The Irish find arguments and opinionated conversation entertaining, so don't hesitate to express your views if they are sincere and informed. If they're not, you could be seen to be arrogant. The Irish are extremely proud of their history and expect visitors--particularly the English--to appreciate their years of suffering, conflict and victory as a Republic. If you are English, be prepared sometimes for a frosty welcome, though this can usually be overcome with sincerity and good conversation. The Irish do not stand for arrogance of any kind!
Your Irish companions will be quick to let you know if you have introduced a subject that 'crosses the line.' Topics that are currently controversial in Ireland include the Catholic Church, the English and immigrants. It is advisable for visitors to Ireland to avoid these topics of conversation unless raised by your host.
Sport is a common topic of conversation in Ireland and the Irish tend to be receptive to sporting analogies.
Irish like to criticize themselves, but they are not receptive to criticism from others. This can put you in a difficult position, especially if the conversation shifts to animated denunciations of Ireland and the Irish. Should you show any signs of agreement, abuse will likely be heaped upon you and/or your home country.
Don't boast about yourself or your company's accomplishments. Instead, the Irish prefer to judge your competence and abilities through your actions.
The Irish try not to draw too much attention to their academic qualifications or personal achievements--though if they have been to Trinity College or Blackrock College, it will likely come out in conversation at some point. It is perceived to be arrogant or 'showing off' to talk about your own accomplishments. People who make a lot of references to their education and other professional qualifications in conversation may be subject to teasing.
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